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Venus & Mars: How You Love, and How You Pursue

Two planets do most of the work in matters of the heart. Venus is the pull — how you love and what draws you. Mars is the push — how you go after what you want. Read them together and you have your relational engine.

Cosmiclogy · 7 min read · Astrology fundamentals

Venus is how you love. It governs affection, attraction, taste and values — what you find beautiful, what you are drawn to, and the way you show tenderness. Mars is how you pursue. It governs drive, desire and assertion — how you go after what you want, and what you do when something is in the way.

One is the magnet, the other is the motion. Venus decides what you want; Mars decides how you chase it. In love especially, the space between those two is where the chemistry actually happens.

The pull and the push

It is tempting to fold both into "the love planets" and leave it there, but the distinction is the useful part. Your Venus can want one thing while your Mars pursues in a completely different style — a gentle, harmony-seeking Venus paired with a blunt, headlong Mars, say. That mismatch is not a flaw; it is often the most human, most recognisable thing about how a person loves.

Venus is the taste. Mars is the appetite. Knowing both is the difference between what you say you want and how you actually reach for it.

Venus and Mars through the signs

Switch between the two planets, then tap any sign. Venus tells you how that sign loves; Mars tells you how it pursues.

Why they matter for two people

When you compare two charts — the practice called synastry — Venus and Mars are among the first things a reader looks at. One person's Mars landing on another's Venus is the classic signature of attraction: the way one pursues meeting exactly the way the other loves. It is a big part of what a compatibility reading is actually measuring, and it is the heart of the Cosmiclogy Bond report.

Read sidereally

As with the whole series, Cosmiclogy reads Venus and Mars using the sidereal zodiac. If your Venus or Mars sign reads differently on a Western site, the tropical-versus-sidereal difference — about twenty-four degrees — is usually why. Both are the same planet; they are measured against different starting points.

What to remember

Venus is how you love and what you are drawn to; Mars is how you pursue and assert. They are the pull and the push, and reading them together — especially against someone else's — tells you far more about attraction than either alone. Both are read sidereally at Cosmiclogy.

Common questions

What do Venus and Mars mean?

Venus is how you love, relate and what you value. Mars is how you pursue and assert. Together, how you attract and how you chase.

Why read them as a pair?

One is the pull and the other the push. In relationships, the interplay between the two is where much of the chemistry lives.

Are they my love planets?

In everyday terms, yes — which is why comparing two people's Venus and Mars is central to any compatibility reading.

Sidereal or tropical?

Sidereal, like the rest of the chart, so the signs may differ from a Western tropical reading.

Your Venus and Mars, placed exactly

Your Cosmiclogy profile calculates both from your birth details — and the Bond report reads them against someone else's.

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Edited by Ragesh Waikar, Founder & Chief Architect of Cosmiclogy — trained in both Western and Vedic astrological traditions, with more than a decade of experience in name and brand numerology. He set the method this Almanac follows and is its interpretation authority. How Cosmiclogy calculates & who built it →